Why saying NO to bullying fails
Every action has an opposite and equal reaction. Isaac Newton.
When you say NO to something it has an equal and opposite reaction.
Saying ‘No bullying’ to a child struggling with their own issues already can bring an opposite reaction. It’s a bit like saying ‘No to anger’. If you need to express something, saying no makes you want to express it even more.
Nature seeks to balance everything. It has no judgement in right or wrong. This is why it’s opposite always comes up. If you strive to be only happy, you will experience its opposite in sadness. That’s why the expression of gratitude and love from the heart transcends this duality with a sence of oneness.
Einstein said. The problems we face can not be solved at the same level from which they were created. By saying No to bullying, we ignore the issues that fuel it. The problem can't be solved at this level of thought.
There are two basic conscious levels. The fear based egoic mind of human survival ‘below the line. The other relates to the consciousness of love and gratitude from the heart from the centre line, up. This balance attracts the ‘above the line’ consciousness that includes the whole.
'Below the line' due to it being unaware in the first place, attacks and seperates. The ego itself does this automatically when it lacks the higher awareness. This is explained in more detail in our free book, 'Why relationSHIPS sink. How to make yours criuse' e book. Sign up for a free copy on the home page.
Our childrens future depends on the ability of parents and teachers to advocate their authentic self. In an overly busy and stressed out world this in itself is a challenge. 'Anudder world' helps provide another way for families to navigate these difficult times.
