Rising Above Bullying
Letting go of our luggage is our greatest challenge.
Our story from our past often prevents personal growth whenever we hold onto the right and wrong of our emotions 'below the line'.
This only strengthens our sense of who we think we are. Our surface identity. Ie: Bob the banker. We can easily become our job identity, or how society has shaped us. Gender, race and culture can often dominate our perspective.
Our surface identity relates to the luggage we tend to carry 'below the line'. Holding onto to this luggage eventually causes the relationSHIP with yourself to sink.
Over time, hopefully our view of life evloves. By facing your challenges 'below the line' you are deciding to no longer pretend in a world of apathy. The people that work through their pain, deepen and heal old wounds. The by product is more consciousness. The reason why this is avoided is due to the fear of the unknown or the thought of taking responsibility for a new behaviour that would require a shift in thought and feeling.
Your core identity is your authentic courageous self. You realise that you're not just your surface indentity. Now you're taking responsibility for the difficult areas of emotion that most avoid. The only way out of suffering is through it. By consciously watching the emotional pain, it weakens. This helps you transcend the old patterns that keep wanting to live through you.
The knocks and battles 'below the line' are there to build depth of character and insight. By watching our interal drama from a heart felt balanced state, we actually work through the emotion and discover a new feeling able to breakthrough old limiting beliefs.
We inspire children to see their challenges as a natural and necessary part of life that are also opportunities for growth.
Children can empower themselves via our DVD and exercise book 'Anudder World'. The same message is given to adults via a video product called 'Another Way' to help them be the example.
Check out this awareness raising concept. See how it makes you feel?
What's the value in thinking twice?
Sometimes our first reactive thought is our best response. Other times, usually in our relationships, we're far better off to shut up and think twice. Put simply, we allow ourselves the space to listen with the space of awareness 'above the line'.
This is your second thought. We are giving wisdom space tobe accessed. Instead of feeding the predictable drama 'below theline', a different response can arise from your being. It has an intelligence beyond the cleverness of the fear based egoic self.
If all you hear is more fear based reaction 'below the line'. It becomes your choice to either entertain it with more of the same. Or to stop reacting to it. Without your reaction you no longer feed it.
Follow your heart, not the herd. Discover:-
Bullying Solutions
Our programs are set by the age of five. That's a bit scary.
The outcomes are represented by our behaviours.
By around the age of six we begin to think more consciously ‘above the line’, yet it’s the subconscious that controls everything.
Over time, many of us have learnt not to trust our relationships and fall into the emotions ‘below’.
Instead of being productive. We can often unconsciously sabotage our relationships.
This is our fear based egoic self. Behaving as best it knows in a world of right and wrong.
It's time to take charge and see your life from ‘above the line!'
The greatest people learn from the challenges ‘below the line.’ They’ve learnt to appreciate what’s really important. They gain a higher perspective because of it.
Bullying’. What’s really going on?
The herd have been lost in the fears which derive from our past. This relates to the black and white judgments that limit our ability to see the issues that matter from a higher perspective. It is important to understand our personal past to be able to recognize the aspects of ourselves that require change.
We will then have the ability to see our issues from ‘above the line’.
In doing so we achieve more balance and inner peace.
‘Above the line’ there is no judgement. We have the ability to observe situations without the need to react or be caught up in them.
By taking charge of ourselves ‘above the line’ we gain self control in a world of stress and chaos.
We break the cycle of yesterdays issues by reclaiming our personal power.
Stess is on the increase because society itself is caught up ‘below the line’. You and your family can ‘rise above it’ together.